I don't know how I'll live after my spouse dies

"How will I survive without my husband?"

"What would I do without my wife?"

The loss of a spouse is one of the most difficult things a person can go through. Part of the grieving process isn’t just about mourning them; it’s also about figuring out how our life continues on without that person in it.

This is a huge emotional transition. You need to think about questions like:

  • How will I cope with the loss of the person I love?
  • Who can I lean on for emotional support, outside of my spouse?
  • Where can I find community outside of my family?

But there are practical difficulties as well. Consider questions like:

  • If I lose my spouse, how will I take care of the finances on my own?
  • What is my spouse’s role in our life (e.g. cooking, paying bills, doing repairs around the house), and how will I face these tasks without them?
  • Will I want to stay in the home we shared together, or will I want to move elsewhere?

We live in a culture that shies away from talking about Aging & End of Life. We put off Aging & End of Life Planning as long as we can. But it’s a lot harder to deal with when you’re also processing the loss of your spouse.

The solution: creating a holistic Aging & End of Life Plan. A qualified Legacy Coordinator can walk you through the entire process, providing you with a safe space and emotional support to face these difficult questions. You don’t have to do it alone.